As some of you may know, one of the initial reasons that I started this blog was to vent some steam about my life as a debt slave. Our family’s huge pile of debt was divided between an underwater mortgage(my mistake) and several high-interest educational loans(my dear wife’s mistake). This debt was destroying my life and my family’s future. And as such, I had set myself on a course to pay off this debt, no matter the cost! As of this time last year, I had $177,889 dollars of debt to be paid. Today, I’m proud to announce that more than $91,000 (or over half) of this debt has been paid off! This has been a long, painful, and tremendously rewarding year. We sacrificed a lot, and we learned a great deal. As such, I want to share the details of our family’s trials and tribulations with everyone!
Our Circumstances
Firstly, I just wanted everyone to know that my wife and I are not people of great means. We both come from hard-working immigrant families . And while our parents have given us plenty of love and support, there was no monetary help of any kind.
I’m an IT guy, and my wife works in social services, helping children with special needs. Both of our day jobs pay very modest, middle-class wages. And because we live in the New York Metro area, the cost of living is sky high. To take good care of our baby son, even more of our modest wages had to be spent on diapers, formula, pediatrician visits, and an assortment of other expenditures.
So with that said, how did we manage to crank out over 91K of cash in just 12 months? That’s over $7,500 dollars a month, or WAY more than what we make at our day jobs. We achieved this not by robbing a bank or winning the lotto. Instead we did it by using the 2 Christian values that our immigrant parents taught us: THRIFT and INDUSTRY.
Living a Frugal and Thrifty Year
For the last year, we have been religiously following the frugality techniques of people like David Ramsey and Mr. Money Mustache. We both drive old used cars. I’m cruising around in a 15 year old Toyota, and she drives just fine!!!! Our gasoline usage is way down since both of us are using hyper-milling techniques.
On the food front, we very rarely go out to dinner, and we always take brown-bag lunches with us to work. And while the variety of foods that we eat has decreased, the quality has undoubtedly gone up. Much of our diet is now composed organic green vegetables, whole grains, and legumes. My backyard garden has been a great help over the last year as a significant source of nearly free organic produce.
We’ve stopped going out for entertainment entirely. All of our get-togethers with our friends are either in our apartment, in the backyard, or in the park. We no longer go on vacations or even road trips. Our vacations are now “stay-cations”, it’s way cheaper and less stressful.
All of our services have been reduced. We no longer have cable, our cell phones are running on the cheapest plan of the cheapest local carrier. The only splurge in terms of utilities is a single land-line phone. We absolutely need this in case of an emergency with the baby.
Every single one of our household expenses have been analyzed and cut to the bone. In effect, we’ve managed to recreate the frugal lifestyle that recent immigrants to this country have always had. Now none of this cost-cutting was easy. Sometimes it was down right painful. Once, we scored some 10 year old hand-me-down clothing for our baby. My mother found out about it and she cried. She told me that she came to this country to secure a better life for me, and now I living just like she did in the old country. But I told my mom that we WILL have a better life, it’s just a matter of getting through this rough patch.
So all of these frugal measures have dramatically reduced our expenses. We are saving anywhere between $1000-$1200 dollars of cash a month. While this was good, it was still not enough to make a dramatic dent to our debt. To really lower our debt, we needed to substantially increase our income.
A Mad Year of building Side Income!!!
So aside from the money we get by being frugal, we still needed to come up with over 6 grand every month to pay off that much debt. In this area, I really took charge. If you’ve read my blog from the beginning, you’ll know that 2 years ago, I lost a landscaping business that employed several people. I had devoted years of my life into building up that business, and the loss was a great blow to my morale.
I also had a house in another state with a substantial mortgage. The mortgage was part of our family debt and had a painfully high interest rate. This mortgage is now thankfully paid off.
So I was in a real bad spot 2 years ago, but it was not totally hopeless. I had gained many useful skills while running that small business. And because of these skills I was able to develop several streams of side income in the 2 years since that failure. My wife also started her own side business with just a little bit of tech support from me. Now since the Economy has been in the absolute dumps this whole time, it was not easy to build up these income streams. In fact, it was BRUTALLY difficult as I will explain in a little bit. But to give everyone an idea of how we were able to hustle up an extra $6,300-$6,500 a month for the last 12 months, here is what all of our small businesses combined earned in the last month:
- Apps and Scripts Business => $2,843
- House Rental Business => $1,710
- Online Content Farming => $738
- Flower Gardens for Rich People => $1,100
- Wife’s Ebooks => $621
Total Revenue for May => $7012
Now this revenue varies by month. Some months we make less, some months we make more. Getting this extra cash was no easy task. Every one of these side-businesses took tremendous amounts of time and effort to build. So here are some highlights of what I had to do to get these revenue streams flowing.
Apps and Scripts Business
I’m an IT guy by trade, so it took a modest amount of effort to learn how to build Smartphone Apps and Computer scripts. The trouble was that not every app can be a hit. In fact most of my apps make very little money. But every so often, I would build something that can make substantial amounts of revenue. Almost every weeknight, after I get home at 7:30pm, I would have dinner, play with our baby for 20 minutes and then proceed to work on this business until 1 or 2am. And then I need to be up by 7am the next day for the day job. This can get really grueling after a while.
House Rental Business
I thought renting out a house would be an easy source of passive income, but it turned out to be much MUCH harder. The problem was that the house was really designed for a single small family, and that would only generate about $900 in rent every month. So I had to basically re-work it to partition the place into 2 medium sized apartments. Renting out 2 apartments increased the revenue to $1500 a month. I did most of the re-modeling work myself to save money.
My rental house has a tiny backyard that really wasn’t good for anything. So I paved most of it over and turned it into parking lot. This parking lot is just big enough to fit 3 cars. The good news is that my rental house is close to a local train station, so I was able to pick up another $210 a month in revenue there.
Content Farming Business
I’ve always had a passion for writing. When it was time for me to go to college, my father made sure that I pursued a technical field. Still, I enjoy writing quite a bit. So this is more of a semi-hobby business for me. The good news here is that I need to commute by train into the city every day for work. So we are talking about a 2 hour round-trip commute. During this transit time, I’m writing article after article on my smartphone and saving them to be published after I get home every night. Most of my articles don’t make any money, but a handful of them have been generating cash.
Planting Flower Gardens for Rich People
Remember that landscaping business I had 2 years ago? While I may no longer have any employees, I still have 2 hands, a strong back, and 2 long days every weekend! So this niche business is a bit of a lucky break for me. For you see, I live within 15 miles of the ultra-wealthy West Chester County. Now within the New York Metro zone, many of the Rich Investment bankers, Hedge fund managers, and Executives own houses in “elite” neighborhoods within West Chester County.
From early Spring to early Fall, I plant flower gardens for the wives of these Wealthy Gentlemen. Normally, landscaping work does not pay that well. And while good horticulture work is a bit more complex than regular landscaping, the prices that I’m able to bill for my work is bordering on outrageous.
For a few clients, I’m able to charge $50/hr to plant some exotic flowers!!!!! Of course, I do many things to market myself as a highly experienced Horticultural “artisan”, this includes building a fancy website, having a portfolio, attending various events to get leads….etc. But still, the real reason for the high price is because the wives of the rich can be very competitive in terms of showing off their “status”. So I’m really happy to have this work, though at the end of the weekend, my bones ache real bad.
My thoughts on the future
The last year has been a highly productive one. Even though I’ve been working 90-100 hour weeks every week, the debt pile has been dramatically reduced. Now I can see that the end of my family’s debt slavery is in sight. If we can just focus ourselves and push hard for 1 more year, we will be free and clear! And even though I’m so very tired, I am very very happy. I have the support of my loving wife, I have the encouragement of my wonderful parents, and most important for all, I have faith that our Lord will grant my family the freedom that we’ve been fighting so hard to attain!








Cloth diapers and breastmilk would reduce thoise bills and the landfill usage. As a mother I would never agree to a father playing with his child 20 mins. per day. It takes 2 to create a child and 2 to raise it. It is very creative to save this much money and pay off your big bill, but better yet don’t ever get into debt that far. Your debt is way more than my hubby makes each year, meaning what you have left. At best we have 1/4 that but no debt. never. ever let yoiurself go after the “Jones” and jsut do what you cut back on now all the time. I feel so sorry for your wife and child. No money is worth just 20 mins. a day playing with your child. We had 1 income while we were raing our children and except for a mortgage had no debt. Use cash only unless it’s school loans or mortgages. Could not in a million years imagine buying without cash. Good luck but remember your child is only young once and 2 hrs. a week of spending time with your child is never enough. He is with you 24/7, 365/year.
Amen, Deb. Never would I ever agree to this either. My hubby used to work about 56-60 hrs./wk. I could neve rimagine that much debt. We don’t have debt and live on less than $25K/yr. It’s totally irresponsible to have that much debt to begin with. I couldn’t imagine how to spend even a small portion of that amount. I was a SAHM and work very much towards self-suffiiciency in the way of food and other areas by gardening A LOT. If you have less income than goes out then how can you pay off bills each month? There are reg. bills like utilities and such that have to be paid each month. Please spend more time with your child NOW, he’s only young once and you can never make it up and some day he’ll resent that, trust me.
Thanks for the comment Deb, our debts are paid off now, thank god!
http://www.survivingeconomiccollapse.net/freedom-2013-goals/
So I’m getting more time with my son now.
Thank you for your kind words Deb. It really pains me to have so little time every day with my son. Every night, when I go to bed at a super late hour, I would reach into the crib and hold his little hand, and it helps.
Yeah, I know our remaining debt is still huge. At this point all of it is educational loans that my wife took on when she was younger. Hopefully within a year, all of it will be paid off and I could then spend more time with my wife and little one.
You are doing a great job for your childs future..I raised 5 children..I agree about the cloth diapers and nursing..I used cloth diapers and hung them out to dry..but no one has the right to judge your choice..keep up the great work..this country needs to learn hard lessons..you are very inspiring!
Thanks so much K! I’m glad that you liked reading this. I actually have a much more minute blog with regular postings documenting this debt pay down quest. My hope is to turn that blog into a kind of journal for my son when he gets a bit older.
Wow, inspiring! I pray God blesses you….don’t forget to tithe, ‘Bring the whole tithe into the storehouse, that there may be food in my house. Test me in this,” says the LORD Almighty, “and see if I will not throw open the floodgates of heaven and pour out so much blessing that you will not have room enough for it. ‘ Malachi 3:10.
I hope the best for your family!
Thanks for the comment Dana. We do give donations to charities. Though right now we have been giving away stuff that we don’t need rather than money(which is ALL going towards debt reduction).
your articles are always awesome, and the design of your website helps to keep it beautiful.
Thanks Aniele!
thank you so much for your dedication, it makes us readers come to your website everyday.
I’m glad you enjoyed this article, Carina. It’s no easy task to keep at on this journey but the end is in sight!
WTG man! You guys are doing great and you should be proud of yourselves! I just hope that after your debt is gone, you reward yourself in some way. Maybe a much needed vacation or something?
Thanks Stephanie! Oh definitely we’re going to go on a trip after this. Good going on your debt pay down as well!
You are INCREDIBLY inspiring. I mean, sensational. Will definitely be lurking this blog and the mirco-blog you have re: debt repayment.
Never in my life have I heard of someone paying off 90k of debt/year. I’m sure, if you choose to, you’ll gain media attention for this when you finish.
Hey Angie, I don’t think I publicized my micro-blog all that much.
For everyone else, I have another blog where I go into a whole lot of detail about the day to day specifics of paying off our massive debt.
http://payoffourschooldebt.wordpress.com/
Thanks Angie! It’s hard going right now but I’m confident that we’ll eventually be debt free.
I’ve been doing much the same, though my debt burden isn’t nearly as much. I am fortunate in that regard. I have another 6 months to freedom. Congrats to you, and given the debt paydown that you’ve been doing, you will have years of solid time to spend with your baby! Best thing you can do to provide them a future is to be a rock they can stand on, both emotionally and financially. It’s also a wonderful lesson to pass on to your children to help them secure their own futures and freedoms.
Thanks for the comment Mary! It’s only a matter of time now before we are totally debt free!
Thanks for the inspiration. Great article!
Thanks a bunch jublke!